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Confessions from the Fog: The House of Usher
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Confessions from the Fog. Thursday, August 6, 2015. The House of Usher. It's always interesting for me to watch the sage unfold- as a specter. For indeed I have been dead and buried to them for some time now, but I can watch from far off in the distance as the dynasty of domination falls down around them. Well anyway, DH is in minor contact with the N's for tax purposes, which means he does hear snippets of the grand goings-on of the 'big house'. It doesn't really surprise me that this big house is now e...
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Confessions from the Fog: April 2014
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Confessions from the Fog. Saturday, April 26, 2014. I would usually write about something like this on my other blog (link to the right of my main one here). Almost one full year since I had my son. Almost 3 since it all went down (history with the N's). Oh my goodness. All the shit. haha. It's an understatement. But you guys get me. Shit on the fan, shit on the floor, all over everybody. (French! It's gotten so that I'm not even sure where the crap is coming from anymore. Post partum depression? Things ...
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Confessions from the Fog: July 2014
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Confessions from the Fog. Wednesday, July 16, 2014. Maybe you're familiar with this analogy already. I have often seen this in relation to the college student. Well, hold onto your horses because I'm totally going to rock your world with a new analogy for dealing with N's. (not really, but if your world is indeed blown open- kudos to ya). My triangle analogy- you can only pick two. Here are your options. Mental and physical health. Your relationship with people you love and who love you (family/friends).
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Confessions from the Fog: September 2014
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Confessions from the Fog. Tuesday, September 30, 2014. News from the hinterlands. In the process of figuring out what DH's role is in the family business plan, we've heard from the flying monkeys. I'm especially happy we may soon FINALLY have the details as to hubby's share of the company and how we might be able to sever contact for GOOD since they may not need to contact us again for tax purposes. The bad news: N's will NEVER stop trying to pretend they are members of a healthy and functional family...
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Confessions from the Fog: Why I don't feel sorry for (most) alienated grandparents
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Confessions from the Fog. Thursday, March 12, 2015. Why I don't feel sorry for (most) alienated grandparents. I didn't realize just how big this syndrome could be. Complete with support groups and web pages galore, some of my personal favorites here:. Http:/ www.aga-fl.org/. Https:/ www.facebook.com/findmygrandparents. As a side note, my heart does go out to the grandparents cut out by toxic children. It happens, I certainly don't promote that. If you want to see how a narc talks, look no further! I thin...
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Confessions from the Fog: January 2014
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Confessions from the Fog. Sunday, January 26, 2014. Nothing better to title this post- sorry! Lol I lack creativity at the moment because I'm full of hatred and self-loathing. I don't have a therapist because I'm broke ass poor, so this is me channeling all the stupid I've faced today into a good cry-rant session. Pull up a chair, if you don't want to- there's the door. My blog, my words. I'm tired of being a good girl everyone expects. That triggers me, it just does. And to all idjits out there, STFU or...
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Confessions from the Fog: December 2013
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Confessions from the Fog. Sunday, December 29, 2013. The other day my husband and I had a brutally honest conversation about where we are since ancient history- or whatever happened 2 years ago that sent us on this fiasco. But first- kudos to us! 2 years of no contact. It's been real. ;). Tuesday, December 24, 2013. That's always a phrase my best friend uses when she has to do something that she really doesn't want to do. Doctor's appointments, house cleaning, and other such items. BE OF GOOD CHEER.
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Confessions from the Fog: March 2014
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Confessions from the Fog. Monday, March 31, 2014. What is and what can never be. I'll give you a hint here- if ever someone badmouths you but doesn't name you and then goes on to tell another person why THEY do it better- obviously- they're probably a narcissist). If you meet someone like that, run. Run like the chubby bubbles girl:. Sunday, March 30, 2014. Tuesday, March 25, 2014. I was just talking to my DH about how we both preferred to be in our quiet-happy-bubble of a home instead of anywhere else w...
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Confessions from the Fog: March 2015
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Confessions from the Fog. Friday, March 20, 2015. Just a note, it's been a while since I posted regularly. This is because we are moving across the country! DH is in the military, so we're being moved. That is all ;) I can't say where, but it will be nice to see some beaches for a change! Thursday, March 12, 2015. Why I don't feel sorry for (most) alienated grandparents. Http:/ www.aga-fl.org/. Https:/ www.facebook.com/findmygrandparents. If you want to see how a narc talks, look no further! They're turn...
