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Coming Home: Coming back to old knowing
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Monday, June 11, 2012. Coming back to old knowing. I needed some time to get out of that sort of meta-masturbatory headspace, and think again about coming just for me. Too much interrogation of my sex, of how I'm doing it, of what I'm doing wrong and what I want to do better (too much allowing myself even to think in terms of wrong and better when it comes to sex! And I begin to feel like I'm back home in Omaha in the house my stepfather built, and that's not at all the sort of coming home. It's been the...
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Coming Home: Coming Home: Day 31 -- getting curious about radical self love
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Thursday, May 31, 2012. Coming Home: Day 31 - getting curious about radical self love. Today's the last day of National Masturbation Month - how have these thirty-one days of radical self love treated you? Have you come every day, or loved on yourself most days, or thought more frequently about how your body likes to be tended to? How have you marked National Masturbation Month - and what are you carrying forward with you? What will you leave here in May? For me, self-acceptance. Author of Beautiful You.
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Coming Home: Day 1: May 1 - striking bone
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Tuesday, May 1, 2012. Day 1: May 1 - striking bone. Day 1, orgasm 1 - who's keeping count? I just had an excellent little half-hour of sweaty sex, tumbly and moaning under my covers. And I was all alone. This is a bone-deep bedrock of my sexuality, a place of radical self care, and I'm claiming it for all to hear. I woke up at 6, the light was coming up outside the window, I rolled over in this new bed in my new apartment in this newly reframed life, put on a favorite podcast (we love whodat. A failure, ...
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Coming Home: Coming Home: Day 3 - Notorious
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Thursday, May 3, 2012. Coming Home: Day 3 - Notorious. The alarm goes off at 4:45, and I hit snooze for the first of about ten times. I'm exhausted, totally unable to move my sleepy body out of the nest I made for myself; instead, I get to wake up and fall back asleep, wake up and fall back asleep. It's one of my favorite experiences, that pleasure of, I'm not ready yet, just a little more. What would the poetry be this morning? I look up quotes about masturbation to include in the blog, to spur thought,...
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Coming Home: Coming Home: Day 2 - opening the throat
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Wednesday, May 2, 2012. Coming Home: Day 2 - opening the throat. 12112 (from my journal). My dictionary says orgasm. Comes from the Greek word orgasmos. To grow ripe, be lustful; and probably is akin to the Sanskrit ūrjā. Sap, strength. (My copy of Roget's has nothing between the entries for organize. We can have orgy, I guess, because it's so often used synonymously- is that what makes it safe? The online etymology dictionary says (in part), of the word, masturbate. To stir up") from * manstuprare.
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Coming Home: We have a new home!
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Saturday, September 1, 2012. We have a new home! The Coming Home project has a forever home now at http:/ wecancomehome.org/. Join us there for the ongoing writing and wrangling with orgasm and masturbation as radical self care for everyone, and particularly for survivors of sexual trauma. November 8, 2012 at 12:09 PM. The RSS feed doesnt seem to be working at http:/ wecancomehome.org/? Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom). With thanks to Dick Schmidt for the photo! There was an error in this gadget. Comin...
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Coming Home: Coming Home: Day 18 - can orgasms be romantic?
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Friday, May 18, 2012. Coming Home: Day 18 - can orgasms be romantic? Today, I'll tell you, I was in a movie. What if the movie gets to be your real life? The song that got me today was Azure Ray's Sleep. Some songs just sound like they're meant to be around the heartbeat of a movie and this is one of those (and then I go look for the video, and check it out! The song was used in the film The Devil Wears Prada. The result of so many years of work ( work? I've been thinking a lot these days about what a ro...
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Coming Home: Coming Home: Day 29 -- Perhaps
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Tuesday, May 29, 2012. Coming Home: Day 29 - Perhaps. On this near-last day of this month of transformative work, I'm hearing all the censor voices, the voices who don't want this writing to happen, the voices who think this work is useless/indulgent/perverted/dangerous/stupid/non-revolutionary. I am hearing the voices of shut it down. I am hearing the voices of you are doing harm. I am hearing the voices of the perpetrators, the afraid, the lost, the broken - all those voices that still live in my skin.
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Coming Home: Coming Home: Day 11 - smelling my fingers
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Friday, May 11, 2012. Coming Home: Day 11 - smelling my fingers. I suppose it could help to be a just-come giggler, wide open eyes, grinning at everyone. You know how, sometimes, after you have sex with a girl, you walk around all day smelling your fingers, remembering? That's me this morning - only the girl I had sex with was just me. Sometimes radical self care looks like not forcing it (haven't I said that before? Don't I have to remind myself over and over into this practice? I know some of you do, a...