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A Last Salute to the Sergeant | The Write Word
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Ldquo;The difference between the right word and the almost-right word is the difference between the lightning and the lightning bug.”. Mdash; Mark Twain. The Write Word Books. Free PDF Writing Guides. Laquo; Newer Stuff How to Write an Obituary. Older Stuff » How to Make Your Writing Word Wishes Come True. A Last Salute to the Sergeant. January 1, 2011. January 1, 2011. Robert Bentley, surrounded by his family, 1958. I loved him, and will miss him, as will all my family. I’m grateful for this C...So sorr...
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Assume Love: Think an Affair Can Improve Your Marriage?
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Laquo; A Wonderfully Creative Third Alternative. How a Great Husband or Wife Becomes a Rotten Roommate ». Think an Affair Can Improve Your Marriage? The folks at Your Tango recently claimed Sometimes Cheating Can Actually HELP Your Marriage. But they offered no data suggesting it ever has done so. Instead, they referred to a 2009 blog post. By Michael J. Formica, M.S., M.A., Ed.M., a board certified counselor in Pennsylvania. The only way back to love is through love. Finding ways to tolerate an unhappy ...
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Assume Love: May 2015 Archives
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Laquo; April 2015. June 2015 ». Articles from May 2015. May 26, 2015. How a Great Husband or Wife Becomes a Rotten Roommate. We're nothing more than roommates anymore.". I don't have any feelings left for you; you feel like nothing more than a roommate now.". It's a dreadful place to get to. So empty. So full of regrets. And it happens to a lot of couples, so let's talk about how it happens, how to avoid it, and how to recover from it. Expect a good roommate, get just a roommate. Expect Love and find...
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Assume Love: Don't Pretend Love
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The Five Love Languages ». Take a second look. At what your spouse or life partner does. You're loved even though you. When you Assume Love, you give yourself the chance to receive more love by looking beyond your instantaneous, gut-level reactions to events. You pay attention to what you know to be true. You stop yourself from jumping to conclusions. You do this for you, so that you don't miss any love being offered to you. Posted by Patty Newbold on Feb 14, 2006. Posted by: Becci April 8, 2010 3:36 PM.
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Assume Love: April 2015 Archives
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Laquo; March 2015. May 2015 ». Articles from April 2015. April 24, 2015. Career Tradeoffs are Never a Given for Two-Career Couples. Today, someone shared with me that her #1 fear is this: I will risk my relationship with my fiancé to benefit my career - or that I will take tradeoffs in my career to benefit my fiancé's career and be bitter later. Both he and she may actually be indifferent to the location, but if they believe these are their only two options, they'll start talking up the location where th...
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Assume Love: Shame on You! The Folly of Shaming a Spouse
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Laquo; How About a Vacation? Marriage Doesn't Work Anymore? The Folly of Shaming a Spouse. If you've read this blog for a while, you know I have no desire to help you win Best Husband or Best Wife of the Year awards. All I want is for you to enjoy being married. And this is not going to happen by shaming your husband or wife. What sort of jackass can't remember his anniversary? You said you would pick up the Beggin' Strips for Fifi today, and here you stand without them.". Respect is the very foundation ...
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Assume Love: Avoid Pretending to Feel Loved When You Do Not
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Laquo; From Furious to Deeply in Love. Thumbing Your Nose at Insufficient Generosity ». Avoid Pretending to Feel Loved When You Do Not. Here's my take on how to enjoy being married. You don't work on the relationship. You work on enjoying it. Remember when you enjoyed it? Remember when you were thrilled about getting married? Remember those times you felt so close and so in love that you spent half the day thinking of ways to delight your mate? It wasn't work then, was it? So, please do not pretend to fe...
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Assume Love: Marriage Doesn't Work Anymore?
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Laquo; Shame on You! The Folly of Shaming a Spouse. Career Tradeoffs are Never a Given for Two-Career Couples ». Marriage Doesn't Work Anymore? The challenges identified by divorced relationship columnist Anthony D'Ambrosio in The Asbury Park Press and reprinted in USA Today. This week are really not very different from the challenges earlier generations have faced. Learn to deal with them, and you can enjoy being married, even now. Sex than singles do. Solution: More real intimacy, the sort where you al...
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Assume Love: Career Tradeoffs are Never a Given for Two-Career Couples
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Laquo; Marriage Doesn't Work Anymore? A Wonderfully Creative Third Alternative ». Career Tradeoffs are Never a Given for Two-Career Couples. Today, someone shared with me that her #1 fear is this: I will risk my relationship with my fiancé to benefit my career - or that I will take tradeoffs in my career to benefit my fiancé's career and be bitter later. Both he and she may actually be indifferent to the location, but if they believe these are their only two options, they'll start talking up the location...
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Assume Love: Archives
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Checking Out Other Women, Porn, and Romantic Comedies. The Problem with Affairs. For Men: Protect Your Health by Protecting Your Marriage. Did I Marry the Wrong Person? Unfinished Remodeling Projects and Clutter. Are Your Prescriptions Messing with Your Marriage? How NOT to Wreck Your Relationship. Third Alternatives: Marriage vs Cohabitation. Third Alternatives: Rude Friends. The Meaning of I Love You, But I'm Not in Love With You. Paternity Surprise for Women Thinking of Leaving Their Husbands. How Abo...