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Level the playing field. A skilled workplace bully is usually an expert at manipulation. Through artful, indirect and devious methods, he influences and controls others. Like a clever politician, a manipulative workplace bully keeps his desires hidden. Pretending to pursue the greater good, he adopts the mantra of “company first” with a fervency that inspires admiration and respect, and most people accept his claims of selfless pursuit of noble causes. How does he manipulate? How does he think? Now compa...

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Level the playing field. Best Responses to a Bully. Once you understand workplace bullies and the basic methods for dealing with them, a vast array of techniques become available for your use. Among these, a handful are particularly effective and should form the heart of your arsenal. Imagine a bully screaming at you, eyes bulging, veins jutting out. Panic fills your mind. What can you say? What can you do? It’s time to pull out your most basic, most foolproof weapon: the failsafe response. It is best to...

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Level the playing field. To enjoy a long and successful career, a skilled bully must disguise his true character. To accomplish this, his behaviors must conceal his bullying nature while unfairly exploiting others. These subtle but powerful tactics are at the heart of his arsenal. They are dangerous because they tend to remain unrecognized. And even if you perceive the subtle pattern of bullying behavior, others probably won’t. Mental patients in charge. What can you do about it? There is rarely an easy ...

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Level the playing field. Weapons for Specific Situations. Before we continue loading up your arsenal, take a step back and consider your growing knowledge of bullying. A great deal of power is now in your hands. How will you use that power? Reflections on new-found power. You achieve success is all-important. Not only to the well-being of others, but to one’s own personal fulfillment. The karmic law always prevails; you reap what you sow. Weapons by type of attack. When you don't cooperate with a bully, ...

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Level the playing field. Leveling the playing field. The purpose of this website is to make it a fair fight between bullies and their targets. I created it because I'm tired of seeing skilled manipulators take advantage of honest, well-intentioned subordinates and co-workers. These targets of bullying aren’t fools or doormats, but merely uninformed about the crafty ways of bullies who have spent a lifetime refining their dark arts. Obvious bullies in the workplace. Complex and dangerous bullies. Although...

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Level the playing field. Subtle Signs of Bullying. A skilled bully prefers to achieve victory before anyone realizes that a war has been declared. His covert methods take a heavy toll on the company and its employees, with the most capable people often the most emotionally overwhelmed. Could it be that your boss, a charming, soft-spoken manager, has been intentionally undermining you? Subtle signs of bullying:. Your boss acts like a close friend. You’re confused at work. You have to keep your guard up.

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Level the playing field. Want to learn more? There a number of outstanding books that can help. Books on bullies and manipulators. The Bully at Work: What You Can Do to Stop the Hurt and Reclaim Your Dignity On the Job. By Gary Namie, Ph.D. and Ruth Namie, Ph.D. Emotional Blackmail:When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation, and Guilt to Manipulate You. By Susan Forward, Ph.D. Toxic People:10 Ways of Dealing With People Who Make Your Life Miserable. By Lillian Glass, Ph.D.

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Level the playing field. Identifying a Toxic Workplace. Does your company confront aggressive people about inappropriate behaviors? Does it warn bullies about dealing fairly with others and following company values? Does it investigate charges of backstabbing and manipulation? If so, consider yourself fortunate. You are in a healthy workplace, with people in power who will support you in your fight with a bully. On the other hand, do they turn a blind eye to bullying? Signs of a toxic workplace. Do disen...

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Level the playing field. Web sites on workplace bullying. A very useful web site by the authors of. The Bully at Work. A site in the United Kingdom, where anti-bullying efforts are far more advanced than in the U.S. Offers resources on workplace bullying, industrial stress and employment law. An Australian website covering both workplace and school bullying. Web sites on schoolyard bullying. A useful web site on school bullying. Great information on school bullying from an organization in British Columbia.

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Level the playing field. Users of kickbully.com. Thank you for clearly and concisely illuminating the world of those most insidious of abusers, the bully. So many intelligent and caring and otherwise aware people simply cannot see their machinations or the harm that such individuals create in every environment they touch.". This is the most useful site I have ever come across. Thank you! I wish I had found your site 3 years ago, before doing it the hard way.". Thank you so much for the valuable informati...